Un-polarizing Ain't Easy
In the
ultra-polarized world we live in, where the right is on the ascendant and the
left won’t give in, where a war (of words, mostly; but not always) is fought
daily on some issue, why do you think
it is like this?
Note: Set aside the fanatics who are impervious to reason for this
discussion.
First, even
reasonable people have this tendency that Seth
Godin cites:
“Someone gets caught cheating, or breaking
a social taboo, or undermining the fabric of our culture in order to get
ahead... And the fans of the team rush to his defense. It happens to spiritual
leaders, in sports and in politics.”
You might think
that presenting (reasonable) people with balanced information of the pros and
cons would have one of two effects:
1)
A
dilution in positions, at least by a little, since they should have a better
understanding of some of the opposing arguments.
2)
Or at
worst, people would ignore the information that doesn’t align with their views,
and come out with no change in the degree of their beliefs.
Instead, study
after study shows that both sides will usually come out with even stronger opinions than before!
Remember, we’re talking of reasonable people, not fanatics. How can this
happen? Here’s what happens:
1)
People
ignore the evidence in support of their existing view.
2)
But
they subject any opposing evidence to great
scrutiny. Any flaws they find, anything questionable they find only
reaffirms their belief in the “wrongness” of the opposing view.
Ergo, they come
out with an even stronger view when presented with mixed evidence!
The other issue is
that it is very difficult for people to analyze the full implication of
changing their mind about some aspects of a belief. Take an example. Say, you
are told there was a fire in a warehouse and there were flammable materials in
it. Later, you hear that there were no flammable materials in there after all.
Check out what happens:
“Subjects who have received this corrective
information may correctly answer that there were no flammable chemicals in the
warehouse and separately incorrectly answer that
flammable chemicals caused the fire. This seeming contradiction can be
explained by the fact that people update the factual information about the
presence of flammable chemicals without also updating the causal inferences
that followed from the incorrect information they initially received.”
Changing one’s
mind, even for reasonable people, isn’t as easy as it seems. The problem isn’t
just ego or vested interests; it’s rooted in how we are wired. Unfortunately,
it probably means that there isn’t any easy way out.
This blog speaks out what I have been thinking about for quite some time now. This is a whale of an issue!
ReplyDeletePeople take stands after which they completely ignore truth, evidence etc, and do not have any inkling they can get very unreasonable and devoid of the feeling not to hurt. Whether the label is ego or wiring, as you say it is here to stay.
Doesn't feel very good, but we better grin it and bear it, as we can't fight truth. We fight with people with our opinions because that is a lot easier thing to do. How terrible - we seem wired on everything! We fight because we are wired to fight!!
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